From my observation, people in general (at least the ones I've met in life), are more inclined to serve rather than be served. They would rather give than receive. But while serving and giving most assuredly produce positive and rewarding feelings for the giver, it's easier to forget that receiving does the same thing for the receiver.
I had some hernia surgery this past Monday and I knew going into such an event that I'd have to switch into "receiver" mode. The nurses and doctors were all very kind, and afterwards, at home, my wife and kids continually asked how they could help me feel more comfortable--anticipating my needs and showing love as I worked through the pain. As the minutes and hours ticked by each day, I reflected on everyone's kindness towards me and I was filled with feelings of gratitude and appreciation.
On Thursday, choir rehearsal day, I debated whether I wanted to try and go fulfill my church calling. I was feeling a lot better--though certainly was not back to my normal self. Just the thought of putting on dress slacks that would hug up around my tender incision points was almost enough to make the decision right then and there not to go. But, two thoughts helped me chose otherwise. First, I had just been to Nauvoo a few weeks ago and thoughts of the pioneers and their sacrifices were still in my head and in my heart. If they could sacrifice (with many being sick or afflicted as they walked hundreds of miles to the Salt Lake Valley), then certainly I could do the same and go to choir! Second, I knew that my friends in choir who were aware of my recent surgery, would surely help me. And help me they did.
Both Thursday and today, they walked a little slower with me to make sure I reached my destinations. They carried my music folders. They helped me pickup music that had fallen out of my folders post-broadcast. And they reached out to take my hand and arm to gently get me back up in standing position when needed.
So thank you. Thank you to my choir friends for truly showing brotherly kindness. And thank you Jennifer and kids for serving and loving even though sometimes I'd temporarily forget the importance (and joy) of receiving. And to those who watched or listened to our music today, I hope your hearts were in receiving mode and felt how much we love you and how much God loves you.
Until next time, God be with you.
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