Sunday, May 9, 2021

TCATS #382 - The Friendship Connection

Two experiences in particular this week reminded me of the importance of friendship and connection. 

The first happened on Thursday as I met with a few friends from Choir, for lunch. As we all sat around the table looking at each other and hearing about various changes and experiences each of us had gone through over the past little while, it was clear we weren't the same individuals that we were a year ago. But the one thing that hadn't changed was our love and friendship for each other--which, if anything, had been magnified and adjusted in many good ways. 

The second happened on Saturday evening. One of my daughter's friends, Brandon, had (in conjunction with his parents) invited his closest friends and their parents to an informal dinner to celebrate connection and friendship. The background to that event was this: Senior year in high school is a difficult one. It's fun and everything, but the realization that all too soon everyone is going to launch out into the world in their own direction and on their own path causes some tender emotions to surface. Anyway, near the end of the dinner, Brandon's dad stood up and thanked everyone for coming and thanked them for all they had done to contribute to the important spirit of friendship. He then held up a box filled with neck ties (for Brandon's guy friends) and necklaces (for the girls) and challenged them to wear these each first Sunday of the month so that no matter where they were in the world, at least they'd know that they were all wearing these symbols of unity and friendship at the same time--and THAT would help keep the memories alive and the connection going. 

I thought that was a pretty cool thing to do. And I could tell that he, himself, had really treasured the friends he had made in high school. 

Friendship and connection within the context of being a member of the Tabernacle Choir is a very important part of the overall experience. And it's one that is at the center of being able to fulfill the Choir's mission. As we rely on each other, prepare together, and exhibit kindness and respect towards each other, we can sing with unity and successfully project the love and peace of Christ to those listening. 

Changing topics entirely, I did want to mention that the State of Utah finally lifted the mask mandate for larger groups over 50. So, that's definitely one hurdle that was in the way of singing again that's no longer a hurdle. I suppose the judgment call on when we CAN get back together again now falls squarely on the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. I would expect that their abundantly cautious approach with all things pandemic will continue to prevail in the short-term. But I hope and pray that they won't take too long. It's time to move forward, IMO.

Until next time, God be with you.

 

[Pictured below: my best friends from high school. . .]




No comments:

Post a Comment